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What Is Postnatal Depression and How Do I Deal With It?

The months following the birth of a baby are ones of great adjustment. Changing body chemistry, lack of quality sleep and numerous other stressors lead many women to experience postnatal depression in the year following childbirth.

Sadly, inadequate information and understanding of the nature of postnatal depression, along with a pervasive stigma in our society about its exact cause, leave many women to suffer alone. Postnatal depression is an illness and is never the fault of the mother - nor is it an indication of their worthiness to be a mum.


Healing is available for postnatal depression, and no mother should feel shame for pursuing treatment for this medical condition. It is real, it is common, and it is treatable.


How Many People Experience Postnatal Depression?


Postnatal depression is incredibly common. While some estimates cite postnatal depression statistics as high as 20% (one in five women), most experts agree that the frequency is around 15% (one in seven women).


When Does Postnatal Depression Occur?


Postnatal depression can happen at any time during the baby's first year of life - not just immediately after birth. In fact, postnatal depression tends to spike around the time the baby is five months.


What Are the Symptoms?


Most women experience some level of "baby blues" during the first two weeks after childbirth due primarily to the hormonal shifts that occur during that period. The primary symptom is an underlying feeling of sadness.


Postnatal depression, however, is marked by persistent feelings past the initial two-week mark, and the symptoms are much broader than simply "sadness." In fact, many women don't recognise that they may be suffering from postnatal depression simply because sadness isn't their primary symptom. Postnatal depression often doesn't look like people think it does. Symptoms often include:

  • Anger, rage, or irritability

  • Difficulty sleeping - even when exhausted

  • Feeling "flat" - no strong feelings of either happiness or sadness

  • Unexplained crying

  • Extreme worrying or anxiousness

  • Intrusive thoughts of serious harm or death coming to the baby

  • Not feeling connected or loving toward the baby

  • A general feeling of "this isn't what I expected it to be"

In more extreme cases (typically associated with postnatal psychosis), symptoms can include:

  • Hallucinations

  • Paranoia

  • Thoughts of suicide or of harming the baby

  • Confusion/disorientation

It's important to note that most high-profile media stories highlight women who suffer from postnatal psychosis, giving many sufferers the impression that if they are not experiencing these extreme symptoms, they're not experiencing postnatal depression.


It is simply not true. The truth is that postnatal depression symptoms occur on a spectrum, and a woman may only suffer a few of the above symptoms.


What Causes Postpartum Depression?


There isn't one single cause or predictor of postnatal depression, but rather it is caused by a combination of complex factors. Here are some of the culprits:


Hormones


Women make jokes and hear endless flippant remarks about "hormones," but the truth is that they are real and they are powerful. There are many physiological changes which occur during and after pregnancy, not the least of which are incredible fluctuations of hormones that cause very profound chemical changes in a woman's body. In many ways, these changes are miraculous. In other ways, they wreak havoc.


More specifically, the hormones oestrogen and progesterone are significantly elevated during pregnancy, and then rapidly return to normal levels within 24 hours of childbirth. It is a huge adjustment for a woman's brain chemistry to adapt to, and the primary contributor to postnatal depression.


Lifestyle Factors


Some of the practical challenges of parenting a newborn exacerbate the hormonal effects, and the net result can be postnatal depression. These include:

  • Lack of sleep

  • Added stress of parenting a newborn

  • Added challenges in the parental relationship

  • Loss of flexibility/free time

  • Lack of a good support system

  • Lack of time to exercise

  • Poor nutrition

  • Strong desire or pressure to be the "perfect parent"/Type A personality

Social Factors


Teen mums and women who are in poverty have higher rates of postnatal depression. It's likely that the added stress experienced by these groups of women as they enter motherhood exacerbates the other factors and leads to their increased risk of postnatal depression.


Medical History and Genetics


Just as with traditional depression, there is a genetic component and women who have a family history of depression, or postnatal depression are at an elevated risk to struggle with the illness themselves. Similarly, women who have suffered from depression in the past have a higher likelihood of struggling post-birth, as well as women who experience premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD) with their regular menstrual cycles. PMDD is an extreme form of PMS and an indicator of a woman's chemical brain response to hormonal fluctuations.


Struggles with fertility and difficulty conceiving also increase a woman's likelihood of experiencing postnatal depression. Finally, a traumatic or medically difficult birth experience is also a risk factor.


How Can I Deal with Postpartum Depression?


There are many things you can do to combat postnatal depression - it's not something you just have to suffer through. If you believe you are struggling, the first step is to speak with your doctor about your concerns. They will ask you more detailed questions to see if a diagnosis of postnatal depression is right for you.


Some women can combat their postnatal depression with simple lifestyle adjustments - other women need more comprehensive medical intervention. Regardless, it's important to remember that postnatal depression is, at its core, a chemical issue - and if you are not able to improve your symptoms without medical support, it is NOT a personal failure.


Postnatal depression is a complex relationship of multiple factors - and treatment for postnatal depression is equally complex. Here are some things you can do to combat the illness and return to wellness.


Develop Support


Be open about your struggle with postnatal depression with other mothers in your social circle. While you might have to battle the illness, you do not have to battle shame. Think about it - if as many as one in five women suffers from postnatal depression, the likelihood that you know women who have gone through it is incredibly high.


Make it a priority to spend time with friends and family. While it might not be possible to do all of the things you did pre-baby, gathering with others in a social setting is healthy. If you don't have a lot of friends who are mothers, contact your birthing hospital or your obstetrician and ask them about local parent/baby groups in the area. They are a great way to connect socially (and commiserate about the challenges of parenting a baby) with other mums.


You may also want to consider a local support group for women struggling with postnatal depression. These are very supportive, non-threatening groups that allow you to learn more about the illness, what it looks like in everyday life, and feel less alone in your struggle. They are also a wealth of information on local professional resources to help you. You don't need a diagnosis to attend - they welcome all new mothers. Ask your local hospital, doctor, or obstetrician for help finding one in your local area.


Make Simple Lifestyle Adjustments


There are a few things you can do to try and combat postnatal depression on your own. These include:

  • Ask partner to take an overnight feeding (pump if you're nursing) to help you get a longer stretch of restorative sleep

  • Schedule regular exercise

  • Get outside in the sunshine and go on walks

  • Pay attention to your nutrition; eat healthy

  • Find ways to exercise regularly

  • Eat a small piece of dark chocolate (yes, really!)

Seek Professional Help


Sometimes lifestyle adjustments don't help, or adequate social support is hard to come by. Counselling or talk therapy has been proven to be incredibly helpful in treating postnatal depression. A counsellor or therapist can not only help you work through the major lifestyle transition of adding a newborn to your family, but they can also walk alongside you and help you to find ways to implement some of the lifestyle changes listed above - because it can seem overwhelming to do it on your own.


A trained counsellor will help you identify the root causes of your negative feelings, give you guidance to process them effectively, and coach you on ways to improve those specific aspects of your life. And while there are many options available, the reality is that making time for appointments which caring for a newborn can be incredibly challenging. Navigating nursing and napping schedules, along with finding childcare, can make it feel nearly impossible to leave the house. Thankfully, there is quality and professional therapy available online to provide postnatal depression treatment, which is a perfect solution for a new mother to get the help she needs.


Medications are also available to help with postnatal depression. Your doctor can recommend and prescribe one that will work best in your situation, but even if you choose not to try medication make sure you keep them in the loop. Explain to your doctor that you feel you are experiencing signs of postnatal depression but would like to try non-medicated strategies to treat it before deciding whether you need medication. They will be able to tell you what symptoms to watch for to tell if your illness is getting worse and if you might need additional medical support.


The bottom line is you don't have to go through this alone. Postnatal depression is a common illness that can be treated in many ways. If you are struggling after the birth of a baby, seek help. Take action. Call your doctor. Contact a counsellor.


After all, this should be one of the most joyous times of your life. Don't let postnatal depression steal that from you. Take charge, and take it back.


By: Sarah Fader

Updated May 11, 2020

https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/depression/what-is-postpartum-depression-and-how-do-i-deal-with-it/?


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